This question also popped up in your mind several times when they were making fun of you. That is how I can make them listen to me and how to make them take me seriously how I can make my significance to these people. These people might belong to your relatives they might be your cousins, colleague,friends teammates, or many more.
You want them to listen to you appropriately. Pay attention to you simply you can start to apply some rules to your way of talking and greeting them and you will watch the result after some time but you have to wait for a while to see the results
The first thing you can do is. You can start talking about the topics they are interested in or might take interest in. Try to choose those topics to which they can relate. Because every group of people has a different mental approach. You can't talk about the bad effects of gaming in the gatherings of gamers they will surely gonna dump you off or get bored of you.
You should talk in a manner that you don't look out of place and also start to get down your tone of talking low and try to add a sweet element in it so everyone can easily get that thing you are talking about. You should also work on your greeting style. You can also change it gathering-wise.
You can also do a course on communication skills they are also available online and some of them are also free. They come in a wide variety so it is also a very great opportunity by having that skill you can also do many more things likewise.
Try to learn those skills in which you are better than others try to find those types of things in which you are better than others and improve them to make you important. A person always gets the attention of everyone if he has a skill that no other one has and is important at that time.No matter how boring he is in talking no matter how nerd he is how to jerk he is.
Try to get on that level of thought process, and mentality of that group of people which you are talking to explain to them your thoughts use what language they can easily understand because you can never make yourself a priority until you can explain the people tricky and difficult things easily.
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