Many of us have heard these sentences some time in our life or at that time when we have shared our ideas and thoughts about anything big. These sentences can left a very bad effect on anyone's mind and thought process too. Also on our self-confidence. From an early age, we get toughed by our parents, our teachers our friends, our classmates, our mentors, and the people who guide us. Most people among us have heard that sentence. "DON'T THINK IT WILL BE THAT EASY, IT NOT THAT EASY THAT YOU ARE THINKING IT IS. IT IS NOT YOUR CUP OF TEA, DO NOT DREAM THAT BIG THAT YOU CAN NEVER ACHIEVE.
Even this time when our children who have to become the next generation from us.Whenever he/she tries to shear his/her idea about anything big all the people in that gathering say that and demotivate him/her by saying those sentences.Totally unaware of the fact of how much it can destroy a child's way of thinking and how much his thought process will be affected by that.
we should not do that only just for the sake of maintaining the funny environment of that gathering. It can left a very bad effect on the mind of a child. if it was done by the gathering of a person where he spends most of the time of his day. so it can be a Sever kind of depression too.
Let me tell you a story of a boy who was not a very good performer in his studies. But he was a great thinker and a great human by nature but he did not know how to handle these types of negative people in life. Unfortunately, he got classmates who use to bully him when they were free in the class the boy bears all the hate and disrespect to him, and many people he was associated with underestimated him. Whenever the boy tries to shears his thoughts and feeling with them they use to make fun of him and bully him. They thought that and said that the boy is never gonna be able to do anything big in his whole life. In other words, they underestimate him. But they were wrong. Now the boy is doing very good in his life and also making plans for a good future. So it is proven that anyone can do anything.
You can't tell who can do what or not.
we should teach our kids to dream big about big things. Because no one can tell what's gonna happen.If we encourage our children to think big and dream big. They are gonna do big and make a huge difference between today and tomorrow.
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