The concept of someone before you

Their are so many scenarios happened in our life where we start to like a lot of peoples. Some gets liked by us just because of their personality, Some gets liked by us because of their habits and sometimes the reason of them getting liked by us is just a great gesture or some deeds which results in making that person's image in our mind that strong that some times nothing can change them by any might they have gotten.

Their is a person among those we like who have all of our concentration and focus you can't pass a day with the most enjoyable thing you got with out thinking about that person not even if you try with all the will you have in you. You can not pass a single day. 

But if you think about this concept you will surly have some questions in you that how can it be possible that in this age of selfishness where everyone is thinking about themselves first and not about the other how can someone think before someone else before him self. But its completely true. The world or the internet is filled with this type of verified stories where all these things have happened in real.

We love our selves so much. Even most of thing we do in our life is just because we want them to happen in our life but what is that one thing that turns the cycle and how can any one come before us in our life or in any matter. 

The main reason hidden in this is a feeling which we all are familiar to. a feeling which is created by ALLAH and inserted in almost all of us. This would be a very beautiful element added in your life and you will be thankful about this. 

Some times it also become the ugliest thing in your life. If its not controlled wisely this can take over. Your all mind and can be very destructive to your future too. So we should try to learn how to deal with the emotions we have gotten because it is very significant for a normal human being to deal with its emotions because it can be a very good fuel for the struggle you do for getting that thing and it can also be a fuel to burn you till death.   

That is why we should learn or at least try to learn how to deal an emotion like this.Learn how to controle that at the right time and how to bring it in to use as a motivation and how to maintain it.