A lot of times in a man's life, he watches a lot of things some of them are easy to face but some of them are very hard and a few of them are even harder or impossible to face one of them is watching himself devalued and finding himself in a condition of being used as a materialistic thing and then get dumped by the people who he loves or wants to be with A lot of times.
we help the people around us and get nothing in return when we needed something those people around us don't even realize you. You decide not to help them again but again when they need you you can't stop yourself despite the fact that you are getting used by them but there is also a part of you who says to you that things won't go that way this time and you help them in every condition whether it is bad or even worse you help them for good.
that small part of you always thinks about changing and truly believe that people changes over time but again you get used to someone and as soon as the realization comes it brings a little sorrow and sadness to it. You feel very bad and anxious about breaking the decision you made for the first time and you feel very powerless and indeterminate.
we should stop thinking about the people this strongly because those types of people always do what they have to do they don't care who is gonna be affected by that one decision of theirs.
so it is we who needs to get change and learn to know more about us more know our value because what is the point of being used again and again for no reason knowing if someone is getting very close to you and you had a very bad past experience with that person it is nothing bad in saying NO to them whether it is your friend, love one or any other person.
try to draw a limit line around and allow very few people to cross it so that no one can use you as a materialistic thing.
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