How many times in your life it has happens to you that someone in your life betrayed you or did something very bad to you which can't be changed ever. You felt like this that you have gotten betrayed by that person and you get a chance in your life where life gives you two ways to follow and left the final decision to you of what to choose and how to choose.
On one hand, you have a path of revenge which is to keep saying that come follow me and take your revenge, you will never gonna get a chance like this and so on and on the other hand there is another path that says that forgive the person who betrayed you or did anything bad to you just forget what he has done to you in past and make a new start with all the positivity and good energy and you will go faster and more successful and without many problems in your life and now it is up to us that how and what we choose for our selves and for the others.
By taking revenge you will surely get a very good feeling of winning and dominating the society and you at some time feel like a very powerful thing it might be possible that you get a very strange feeling of vengeance but it is gonna get a very deep and dark mark left on your heart and personality and also affect your true nature and if you start to keep going with that nature after some time you will feel that it has limited and at sometimes killed that soft corner in your heart for the people and you will find your self a very strict and reserved person and a terrible person to live with also.
On the other hand, if you forgive something you feel an instant feeling of love for humanity and find a soft corner and petty getting bigger in your heart by forgiving someone you are also giving another chance to that person to change and this ha proved that forgiving gives many reasons to change and vengeance bring hate and resistance in a normal man you will also feel a very certain change in your personality and your nature too by doing that it also bring an element of love between two peoples.
But it is also not necessary to have mercy and petty on someone again and again because some people just did not make for getting any sympathy and forgiveness because they use this very holy and sacred emotion for the bad deeds they use it as a shield and get rid of many of punishments of which they are worthy but not every single one is like this there are many peoples who commit mistakes and apologize for that and also hypothesize their mistakes and they are surely worthy of your forgiveness so it is wise to forgive them before its too late.
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