WHY LOSSES ARE GOOD TEACHER?

 At so many times in our lives, we start something new and got into losses and then end up with a negative thought or sometimes a question, why always me? or why I have to bear all the losses, when I started a thing only then does it has to end up in losses, or why it always has to happen with me or many more negative things too. But losses are a very good teacher of life if you think about it just a little bit. Its all about having a positive mindset then all the things around you will start pleasing you and you will find that losses are good teachers.

The word loss can not only be used for the loss of something materialistic or it is not only be used when the loss happens in terms of money or other wealth but it can be used in many more ways like emotions, time, potential, efforts, and money too but it gets overshadowed by the term of money all the time because it is not used in the daily life but it is used repetitively in the dealing of money or the places where money involves.

We all bear losses in our lives sometimes or other but many times the loss is so small that we don't notice it as it is noticed by us when it is in terms of money. We bear losses in many terms remember that time when you have done so much planning for a picnic and then for some reason you won't be able to go at that time or some complications occur in that plan so when we cancel a plan all of our time the energy that we put into thinking about it all just goes waste.

Some peoples get losses in their businesses and, Some get losses in their lives, Some bear losses in their relationships these losses can be small and not worth our attention but sometimes the losses are big enough that no one can ignore them, and enough to take anyone into a deep and dark period of negative thinking and regret and. Sometimes it can take an appearance of depression and very few people can defeat it by thinking positively. 

The best way to get over a huge loss is to think positive in every way in your life whether it is about the badest thing that happened in your life try to accept the losses on your own and try your hardest to learn from those losses because losses are the best teacher for those who took them as. 

Losses are a very good source of getting information and learning about life and how things can change in a way that nothing is in favor of you, All those things you did in the past were making you regret but there is a feeling inside you that nothing is gonna happen and the life will come on the track sooner or later, They can teach us about many things, especially about those people around you who are just their for making you happy in your good times and when the time goes bad they start not noticing you and get disappear when you need them the most.

We should try to teach our kids how to overcome the regret of loss and how not to think negative and try to find meaning in everything, Try to find the reason, the message coming from ALLAH, and keep believing in him even when the time is against you and all of the worlds let you alone but in that times he is with you, keep your faith in him as strong as possible and give this message to our offspring too.