Parents and child shear a very complicated and beautiful relation among them which drives through different stages and different things throughout the time but the most important thing between them is that they never shear a thing about their relation with others. Like no one will tell you about the relation between them and their parents
A lot of people have a lot of different issues with their
parents and they can be all kinds some parents don't trust their child and not
let him do what he wants to do. Some want their child to do what they want him
to do in his life. Some wish that their child lives according to them and some
want them to adapt the same lifestyle as they have in their houses and if the
things don't go according to their desires and wishes they get disappointed.
This is the age of constant change and replacement now a
days a lot of new things and opportunities are getting discovered by the people
and a lot of people are willing to adapt the change and make their lives
different from others but and that's where the problem and constant tug of war
of thoughts of both sides which takes a lot of time and efforts to win by each
side
If a person wants to pursue his passion and willing to bear
all the hardship which is going to come along this then he has to do all the
struggles to make it work and get success and also make efforts in convincing
his parents because in the society we live in it is very difficult for anybody
to make its way to success without the support of their parents
If a person has a passion of repairing cars and fabricate
them. He cannot make a lot of money with it. But he will be happy for the rest
of his life doing that and will try to revolutionize their work and make
progress with it. But when he tells his parents about this, they will surly going
to be disagreeing with the idea of him and will not going to be understanding
his narrative behind his decision. They will not support him or in worst case
scenario the argument can convert in to a warm argument this is a normal
condition in a majority of our houses which is also discussed among the
teenagers with a bad gesture to their parents. Which is getting pretty normal
these days.
Basically, in a lot of motivational stuff on the internet or
in majority of those we can easily find some sort of idea of getting misstarted
by our parents about our life decisions we make. which can develop a rebellious
gesture to our parents.
But the reality is a lot different than first we have to
understand that our parents are not the villans of our lives. They are so
burdened with the societies and pear pressure and with the idea of getting
their child left behind the other's that it stops them from thinking about the
main idea behind your decision. AS we all know about this that this is an age
in which all the things change very fast and are very hard to understand by our
parents with those things in mind, they can't think about the main narrative f
yours. It is very difficult for them to keep up with things like this,
However, the relation between a parent and a child is a very
sacred and cannot be compromised on pointless thing like pear pressure or
getting their child left behind others. It is our responsibility that we
educate them about this idea for good. They don't want want our emotions and
goals to be hurt in any matter because they love us
They don't want us to be hurt by any thing they are just a little bit un informed about the idea we should try to educate them in a manner that the don/t have to compete with the world in terms of money or social status they just need to understand that what you are happy in and the rest is fate where it drives you
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