we all or most of us spent their 14 to 15 years period of our life at our homes we see many people succeeding their lives and hear about them a lot of times and we get inspired by them we seek for what should be we doing for the success. We see a lot of ways from which we can achieve what we want to be in our lives. we measure and in the quest of finding the right and suitable way of success and decide their destinations too.
we all have different definitions of success in our mind some connects it with materialistic things and some relate it with emotions and people around them but all of us want to achieve something in our lives in one way or the other we make choices around our dreams and then start to work on them some of us get to the end and get succeed but also the rest of them don't get what they have wanted from their lives.
As a result a lot of people get disappointed by their fate and what they get after doing all that hard work and efforts in life to achieve that one point of success in life. Some get really close to that point and also achieve many things that they can't even think about but for some reason don't make it to that certain point that they have choose to get one day and after that a very horrible, dark and depressing period comes in their lives
That period has nothing more than a huge pile of weight of anger, disappointment, anxiety, sadness, depression, uncertainty, insecurities and pain starts. This is the most longest and lasting period of a human's life he can't even stop thinking about what he has lost and his dreams and memories related to that certain thing and if he has no one to talk this period can also take over his life too
if a man has someone to talk with and shear his problems with he can make it through this period with some difficulties but if he got no one this period is become a way too harder to cut that's why we should make those people close to us who can understand and intend to listen to our sorrows and grieves
their will be some people's in your circle who listen to your problems unintentionally and just keep saying that every thing is going to be okay but don't come with any solutions every day but their will also a person who get very ignored and miss understand by you in your circle who will not only intend to listen to your problems but always come with the right solutions for you
we just have to look and we will probably find those type of peoples around us. who cares for us and try to make us happier than we are for some people it can be their partner, Sibling, Cousin, Friend or someone else. Who want to see them happy but you didn't notice they frequently asks about you and your conditions or about how your life is going at that point of time.
All we need to do is to find those people and try to keep them close and not to lose them because they are the most likely to rely on when any thing happens to you. It seems very different to find a single person of that kind of nature but their is more than to think. You just have to look for them among the people around you.
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